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WHAT THE LADIES NEVER TELL YOU

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The day you understand that our female species always have something they never tell you but expect you to know, is the beginning of wisdom. Yes, they bite and scratch They yell and throw everything conceivable at you They insult you for everything you are worth Here is the truth: They expect you to understand that all that is because they LOVE and CARE for you. Funny how they choose to show it. As a guy, you have to do the extra, see the extra, feel the extra and say the extra too. You cannot really do too much, so why not go the extra mile. I mean, she's a lady bro. Get her bags when y'all are heading out Keep her on the safe side of the road if both of you are taking a stroll down the road Be the first to always say "sorry" Compliment her even when she doesn't feel she deserves it Understand this: It's the little things you do that eventually matter. So don't overshoot it by thinking that one heroic deed of yours will keep her hum...

THE ANSWER IS "NO"

NO is a word we should all come to appreciate. I mean, we mustn't always be available at all times even to ourselves. Saying or rather using the word " NO " can save you a lot of unnecessary regrets. Now why do we think we have to say YES .... simple: to save a relationship to please a friend or loved one  to have immediate gratification because the thought of waiting any longer to achieve something worthwhile is TIRESOME  peer pressure to not look bad  For one brief moment, think about that one time you said YES when a NO could have saved you one night of REGRET . I am not by any chance saying you should turn to a snub :) Start first with YOU . Practice saying NO to yourself: NO to that habit  NO to getting angry  NO to being vulnerable  NO to shedding tears YOU KNOW YOUR WEAK POINTS...CHOOSE YOUR NO CAREFULLY It would not happen in one day, but keep at it. PERSISTENCE is key. SOMETIMES THE BEST WAY TO SAY YES IS A POL...