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ESTHER'S LETTER

Hey Ess,                       I sat and cleaned up my apartment today, seated beneath a pile of my old college books was a picture of the two of us; I just stood, carrying my 1980's fro and a  bland look on my face with the exception of the plastic smile I had mastered over the years, and you, you... my dear, brought life to the picture with your hands that were spread so far out as your hair danced in the wind, while we stood within a frame of the prestigious University of Portharcourt logo, you always wore the prettiest smile I had ever seen in the twenty-five years I had been alive. It was our convocation, and I must say that we had a great four years in school. You are that one friend I feel no pressure around and even though we had our issues back then it was nothing our friendship couldn't weather.              Today, the story has changed, but the love hasn't. The friendship is str...

LOOK BEYOND SELF

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Every day we live our lives and consume quotes from "celebrities" or motivational sites that tell us things like: It's my life so I live it like I please  It's okay to be a little selfish  If it's good by you, then keep at it ...the list could go on forever. Now while all these are not bad by themselves, you have to understand that fundamentally, no man is an island. Think about it, these words didn't fall from heaven and land on the page where you found them, someone, as a result of peculiar experiences they had, wrote them and maybe they had some cool sharing power or a social media account with followers that can lay a siege on your country, so a few retweets or shares brought it your way. We could argue that no one is perfect and I would win because even as you read this, you are aware of the very little imperfections that are only known to you and God. Your life is connected to a million others around you, this connection might not be tangib...

INSIDE STORY

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The alarm goes wild and Janelle’s phone falls from the bed as she stretches and wearily opens her eyes one after the other.  She suddenly realizes how cold her pink-themed room is and sighs as she spots her duvet nestled to one corner of the bed, far from her reach. “Thank God I live alone,” she says as she sits up nude and lazily walks to her live-sized mirror to admire her very unique physique; her legs are as straight as the Pillars of Hercules, joined to her pelvis on which her very African hips sit. The brown of her skin glows and only darkens where her areolas sit on her perfectly formed upright bosoms. This appears to be a regular routine every morning and the smile presently adorning her spotless face is proof positive that she enjoys looking at her reflection in the mirror. Her reverie is cut short because the reality of being queried should she get to work late, dawns on her, so she saunters into the bathroom. Opening the cabinet to her right, ...

I MISSED YOUR BIRTHDAY

I have known you forever... I have known you for a lifetime We have been through the worst of them all As well as have conquered TROY together You are more than a brother More than a sister . . . So forgive me when I stand shocked to know that you have assumed an unforgiving stance, simply because I; for some reason which you deem inconsequential, somehow forgot to call you, send a message across, or be present that very day you added "1" to your age. How do you really measure friendship? I never knew our "FRIEND"-"SHIP" was still testing waters Now all those years of trust-building are gone !!! Was our foundation really that shaky? Or did we build with inferior materials TAKE A MINUTE... THINK ABOUT IT ... We have been friends since the beginning of time ... I missed your birthday and I careLESS... Had I called, would it infer that I careMORE? If you call me a friend, then I pray thee... let me bear my name devoid of ...

TIME STOP

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Have you ever sat and pondered on how one day,  IT will all come to an end. Go on and think about it... even the day has a night, and your sweet sixteen shoes wouldn't fit in 5 years time.  WHAT VALUES... DO YOU HOLD DEAR? BECAUSE ONE THING IS SURE, "We must all give account someday."  Time as we know is only a pause in eternity. In other words we wouldn't be in this world forever, so we must make our time here count for God and good as we will all give account to our creator one of these days not too far from now, when time will eventually stop.                          This is a call to reach out to the lost in this world before it is too late. Before time stops, for time is limited on this plane of life. POET NESSYL TAKES IT DEEPER IN THIS PIECE,  WATCH SHARE COMMENT RESHARE But in all this, let this piece help you appreciate your time on earth better. ...

LETTER TO ALL GOSPEL ARTISTES

Dear Gospel artiste, There really is no such thing as the  Gospel music industry . Just as there is no Rap music industry, R n B music industry, reggae music industry or Hip hop music industry. We only have " The Entertainment industry " which encapsulates everything. Each genre of music appeals to different kinds of audiences. Stop complaining that you are broke because you do gospel music. ❌ You're broke because you are empty. What are you doing about your branding? What is special about you that your audience will be willing to pay for? How does your mind work? Now, If you think you're broke because you do Gospel music(which is actually a foolish way to think), I think you need some reorientation. You're not going to heaven because you are a gospel act. You're not going to hell if you don't do gospel. You may very well still go to hell even if you sing gospel from now till forever. Just work on your brand, work on yourself, work on you...

THE TRUTH ABOUT MONEY

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There is actually no polite way to say write this, truth is,  MONEY DOESN'T EXIST . Okay...calm your nerves down and take a minute to just read till the end. You could say that I am entitled to my opinion...I wouldn't argue with you, trust me when I say that even life proves my point. MONEY ONLY EXISTS IN THE MIND OF THE POOR Again, I do not point fingers😃 .                                                                      CASE 1 When I was much younger, my friends and I will often say that we should always carry extra money in our pocket for miscellaneous purposes. That sounds responsible I believe...but here was the issue with our train of thoughts: we believed that it could be possible to be walking on the road and accidentally push someone's egg crate to the floor, and when that happen...

PATIENCE

Everybody likes to eat a nice delicious meal, but not every one likes to COOK . Most people have seen themselves playing one musical instrument or the other, but not all of them like the LEARNING PHASE . "Mum, I want to be a medical doctor." ...Most young people say...but many get FRUSTRATED out of medical school with complaints on how tedious the " reading " is. We all want to own big companies and achieve great success, but not all have the " staying-power " to endure the " start-up " phase. Point is , we all want to achieve something great in our lives but give up too soon while undergoing the process. Everybody wants it FAST .  HERE IS A BETTER WAY TO LOOK AT IT Let your passion for the END be your driving force during the PROCESS. GIVING UP OR GIVING IN IS NOT AN OPTION ... because you might just give up too soon. CHOOSE TO BE PATIENT.  IF IT IS WORTH IT, THEN IT IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR. #daretobelieve

STEREOTYPE

It's funny how we get offended when people have certain views about us.  Are we always the victims? NO !!!  We also serve our own fair share to those around us. Now, I am not saying it is your fault...Our society has just shaped our minds that way. You have just grown up with all the wrong information , and our parents are kings in the art;  Mum tells you "Boys are evil, they only want to get into your pants."  Now you have this very single shallow view of every male that comes your way. "Nigerians are thieves" therefore every black man you come into contact with, whether kenyan or probably a black american; who has no idea how to spell nigeria, is a criminal . When you allow such single views cloud your mind about things and people, you stop yourself from experiencing the beauty life has to offer. PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT. THINGS CHANGE, PEOPLE DO TOO. TRY TO HAVE AN OPEN MIND ABOUT THE WORLD.               ...

INTERDEPENDENCE

Everybody wants to become successful .  Everybody wants to stand ou t.  These days people go on about how proud they are to be independent , and how independence pays off . What they fail to realize is the fact that no man is an island . You cannot become successful without people .  WE ALL NEED EACH OTHER !!!! No matter how great an architect you are, you still need an expert " independent " mechanic to fix your car when it gets bad. Even the President of the country needs an expert " independent " hairstylist/hairdresser to cut/style his/her hair. I know some people have a do it yourself policy . That's okay, but how long would they last. If we really learn to work with people, our INDEPENDENT stories would be beautiful. #onelookatyou

OPINIONS

Mum : “Sweetheart, don't let the preacher fool you, the idea of God is a fantastic trick.” Dad : “Son, life has its way of kicking you below the belt. Just accept whatever fate it metes out to you.” Cassie : “Girlfriend, there really is no love in the world anymore.” Josh : “Unemployment seems to be the order of the day.” Friends : “Don't even bother trying, we all tried and lost it all.” These are some of the words we often swallow from people very close to us. BUT , have you ever analyzed these words? Take a minute..... Two words come to mind. EXPERIENCE and OPINIONS People tend to give “ advice ” and make suggestions on how you should run your life based on their experiences. Truth is, we...blinded by emotions, fall prey to their OPINIONS on LIFE. Remember, all they have to offer are opinions not facts. CHOOSE CAREFULLY WHO YOU LISTEN TO.  

PSYCHED

“ I've got this ”  “ I can take care of ME ” … your favorite words to your subconscious mind. You are always out there, somewhat available to all. A very good listener and a perfect adviser . The best part is the fact that you see people take your words and run with them; maybe a friend, colleague, relative or a perfect stranger, they swallow your words and their lives take an upward turn. Now here you are, facing a little challenge, and you think the world has come to an end or is just unfair to you. Come to think of it; you FIX others. So what are you waiting for...  FIX YOU . Didn't work right? Here is a Fun Fact... If you; being as human as you are, have the ability to fix others, it simply means you are already taken care off by the one who MADE “you” possible. Learn to let go of your cares. CAUTION : GOD AT WORK