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THE QUESTION FEW EVER GET TO ASK

Have you ever asked WHY? Now this is not the regular, "i-want-to-know-because-I-am-curious" inspired question which we seem to ask effortlessly these days, not even caring if the answer we get satisfies us or not. This WHY receives its truest answer from your heart. TAKE A MOMENT, sit back and ask yourself: Why am I this pretty? Why do I sing this good? What are my biceps for? Why is my IQ this high? Why am I this convincing?  Why am I the no 1 marketer in my Firm? Why do I have a lot of money? e.t.c  The list goes on forever.  Now:  Think about that quality you have that makes you stand-out, no matter the field where it can be applied.  Think about all the laurels you have amassed in your life time Now again, ask yourself "WHY?"  Are you just alive to balance the ecosystem? ❌ My point? Simple... If your gift has no heavenly value, then it is as good as being without. You were created for a reason, STOP BEING COMFORTABLE ...

MUSIC SERIES: THE JOY OF SINGING

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Have you really seen an angry person sing ? I bet your answer would be NO . You often will hear them murmur or probably do the expected which is to shout. We all can agree that music is one of the most amazing things that has ever happened to the human race. Let's look at the era of slave trading . Now, you would agree with me that the slaves were very angry with their masters; no one would argue that, but when they began singing, they seemed to forget they were in chains and they moved quite gracefully and in harmony even when doing the distasteful biddings of their masters. They seemed to have a moment of respite from the tears in their skin and the insult on their ego. Music when expressed through singing no matter the occasion or the circumstance, wells up a joy that only your spirit can explain. Now you don't have to be CeCe Winnas, Sinach, J Moss or WeR³ to have such fulfillment with music, your voice * no matter its state * is just enough to give you the pleasure y...

MUSIC SERIES : THE MAGIC OF MUSIC

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"Music heals the mind, body and soul" "Music has therapeutic capabilities"; these amongst many others are some of the very interesting things people have to say about music. Ever thought of how deep this goes ? Let's take a look at the movie industry, Hollywood for example has very talented music supervisors who put in a lot of effort to make you appreciate a movie better. There are a lot of dynamics and planning that happen backstage in a movie or stage act to leave an imprint through music in the hearts of the viewers. These days, the advertising agencies employ music when promoting brands, and they go as far as using music stars or popular songs and creatively put their product in the centerpiece of the song. You often find yourself singing your way to the store to purchase the product just because the song got to you. My point ? Quite simple, take the time to go through your music library and compare it to the kind of experiences you have in life or to ...

THE ANSWER IS "NO"

NO is a word we should all come to appreciate. I mean, we mustn't always be available at all times even to ourselves. Saying or rather using the word " NO " can save you a lot of unnecessary regrets. Now why do we think we have to say YES .... simple: to save a relationship to please a friend or loved one  to have immediate gratification because the thought of waiting any longer to achieve something worthwhile is TIRESOME  peer pressure to not look bad  For one brief moment, think about that one time you said YES when a NO could have saved you one night of REGRET . I am not by any chance saying you should turn to a snub :) Start first with YOU . Practice saying NO to yourself: NO to that habit  NO to getting angry  NO to being vulnerable  NO to shedding tears YOU KNOW YOUR WEAK POINTS...CHOOSE YOUR NO CAREFULLY It would not happen in one day, but keep at it. PERSISTENCE is key. SOMETIMES THE BEST WAY TO SAY YES IS A POL...

ONE LOOK AT YOU Lyric video

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THIS IS the link to the full VIDEO Guys

LOVERS GUIDE

LOVE is love only when it is TRUE . Everybody goes off saying " love is blind " … IS IT? Love in its default setting is UNCONDITIONAL . My Advice to YOU: When you love, do so with all of you.  There is no need to be selfish about love if it is genuine and for the right reasons. When you care for someone, really do.  Be seriously concerned about others.  People must not love you in return, actually, they do not have to. LOVE IS TRULY ALL THAT MATTERS Never let your actions be deficient of love.  DO NOT EVER PRETEND TO LOVE OR CARE FOR SOMEONE because that love wouldn't stand the test of time. You would end up very frustrated. True love; the love of Christ in the heart of a man, ALWAYS WINS . When you make this love available to those around you, you give them a reason to be alive. You also wouldn't ever have to feel betrayed because you are a love-child of a Love-God, therefore you have all the love you require from your fath...

STEREOTYPE

It's funny how we get offended when people have certain views about us.  Are we always the victims? NO !!!  We also serve our own fair share to those around us. Now, I am not saying it is your fault...Our society has just shaped our minds that way. You have just grown up with all the wrong information , and our parents are kings in the art;  Mum tells you "Boys are evil, they only want to get into your pants."  Now you have this very single shallow view of every male that comes your way. "Nigerians are thieves" therefore every black man you come into contact with, whether kenyan or probably a black american; who has no idea how to spell nigeria, is a criminal . When you allow such single views cloud your mind about things and people, you stop yourself from experiencing the beauty life has to offer. PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT. THINGS CHANGE, PEOPLE DO TOO. TRY TO HAVE AN OPEN MIND ABOUT THE WORLD.               ...

INTERDEPENDENCE

Everybody wants to become successful .  Everybody wants to stand ou t.  These days people go on about how proud they are to be independent , and how independence pays off . What they fail to realize is the fact that no man is an island . You cannot become successful without people .  WE ALL NEED EACH OTHER !!!! No matter how great an architect you are, you still need an expert " independent " mechanic to fix your car when it gets bad. Even the President of the country needs an expert " independent " hairstylist/hairdresser to cut/style his/her hair. I know some people have a do it yourself policy . That's okay, but how long would they last. If we really learn to work with people, our INDEPENDENT stories would be beautiful. #onelookatyou

BLACK LOOK

Someone gets you upset at 3 am in the morning, now everyone who comes in contact with you during the day would have to suffer for it.  YOU ARE ANGRY Your boss calls you a blonde and insults your supposed ego during work hours, you get home and your husband and kids are held responsible. YOU ARE UPSET You got expelled from school, now you choose to EXPEL yourself from life too? Truth is , there is a 105% possibility that the people responsible for your supposed countenance forget they got you upset the moment you leave their sight. They go about their normal lives while you are being held hostage by their words or actions. THINK ABOUT IT.... People only have a hold on you to the extent you give them room to. YOUR FACE IS YOURS. DECIDE THE LOOK YOU WANT TO WEAR.  #onelookatyou

OPINIONS

Mum : “Sweetheart, don't let the preacher fool you, the idea of God is a fantastic trick.” Dad : “Son, life has its way of kicking you below the belt. Just accept whatever fate it metes out to you.” Cassie : “Girlfriend, there really is no love in the world anymore.” Josh : “Unemployment seems to be the order of the day.” Friends : “Don't even bother trying, we all tried and lost it all.” These are some of the words we often swallow from people very close to us. BUT , have you ever analyzed these words? Take a minute..... Two words come to mind. EXPERIENCE and OPINIONS People tend to give “ advice ” and make suggestions on how you should run your life based on their experiences. Truth is, we...blinded by emotions, fall prey to their OPINIONS on LIFE. Remember, all they have to offer are opinions not facts. CHOOSE CAREFULLY WHO YOU LISTEN TO.  

MURDERER !!!!!!!

Assassination has since metamorphosed since the murder of JFK. People no longer need weapons to turn a nation handicap. They do it in the comfort of their rooms. Now don't just sit there reading this and wondering what kind of people are responsible for such inhumane actions. YOU ARE ALSO A CULPRIT. Really?  (-_-) you are asking " how? " Allow me to show you HOW How many times have you started something great and stopped halfway because you met a temporary set back How many times have you buried an inspiration that came to you simply because you thought " CAN I ?" Remember when you simply quit because a certain " someone " got you annoyed  How about that time you gave up because you failed at the first or even the 60th try These days you blame your shortcomings on your environment  For every dream you LET GO , a nation looses a gift.  Now imagine if everyone in the world follows in your footsteps, then civilization as we know ...

PSYCHED

“ I've got this ”  “ I can take care of ME ” … your favorite words to your subconscious mind. You are always out there, somewhat available to all. A very good listener and a perfect adviser . The best part is the fact that you see people take your words and run with them; maybe a friend, colleague, relative or a perfect stranger, they swallow your words and their lives take an upward turn. Now here you are, facing a little challenge, and you think the world has come to an end or is just unfair to you. Come to think of it; you FIX others. So what are you waiting for...  FIX YOU . Didn't work right? Here is a Fun Fact... If you; being as human as you are, have the ability to fix others, it simply means you are already taken care off by the one who MADE “you” possible. Learn to let go of your cares. CAUTION : GOD AT WORK

I QUIT :(

Okay, I get it :( ... you tried. You actually even surpassed your "pushing capacity." ... FANTASTIC QUESTION: WHAT CHANGED ?   NOTHING. Truth is, giving up never really made anyone or anything better. All it does is to push the " worry-date" to LATER .   People say "you win or learn" , and I agree, BUT there is an underlying factor in this statement that many fail to see. NOW YOU ARE ASKING THE RIGHT QUESTION... ;)   WHAT? very simple... CHOICE Before you start any task, be conscious of the fact that your mind already has been conditioned on what to expect as an end result, and whether to interpret it as a WIN or a LOSS . And even it did not go according to plan it is still in your hands to CHOOSE to  LEARN   from  the  experience.  Remember the only person that can limit you is the guy at the other end of your mirror.