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MUSIC SERIES: DO ME A SONG

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The ladies will probably understand this and relate with it more. The world of ROMANCE has made it very cute and romantic to have a guy do a song for a lady. I wouldn't say I am innocent of that crime though 😜 . My point? Simple... Everyone appreciates being idolized, even when they do not really ask for it or even need it, be it a man, woman , boy or girl. We all have a god-like side that needs a little polishing every now and then. First off, when you take time to write or compose even just 4lines of a song for someone, it makes the receiver of the song feel: loved important worthy, amongst many others. Now like i said initially, the person most times, never asked for it nor desired such, but the memory stays; if it is a voice-note you sent he/she will probably keep it stored for a long time to come. Now, you mustn't be an award winning songwriter to pull this off. You could simply look out for songs that convey the message to the person you intend doing it for, and...

MUSIC SERIES: THE JOY OF SINGING

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Have you really seen an angry person sing ? I bet your answer would be NO . You often will hear them murmur or probably do the expected which is to shout. We all can agree that music is one of the most amazing things that has ever happened to the human race. Let's look at the era of slave trading . Now, you would agree with me that the slaves were very angry with their masters; no one would argue that, but when they began singing, they seemed to forget they were in chains and they moved quite gracefully and in harmony even when doing the distasteful biddings of their masters. They seemed to have a moment of respite from the tears in their skin and the insult on their ego. Music when expressed through singing no matter the occasion or the circumstance, wells up a joy that only your spirit can explain. Now you don't have to be CeCe Winnas, Sinach, J Moss or WeR³ to have such fulfillment with music, your voice * no matter its state * is just enough to give you the pleasure y...

TO THE HEART THAT ROCKED MY CRADLE

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Your hands in mine reassure me of how great I already am. OH!!! The tears you wiped from my baby face and the smile that followed, when you kissed my soft cheeks. The whip that straightened my consciousness when I seemed to go off the RIGHT course. Can I forget the HUGS?  Can I forget the FOOD? Can I delete the sight of your darkened knees, that lost its glamour in prayers for me? Can I forget the times we played pranks on DADDY? Do I say that I  love  you? Do I say that I am  grateful? Do I halt procreation till every woman on earth mutates into you? LOVE doesn't cut it. Gratitude too... To the first QUEEN in my kingdom... The one lady; till i meet wifey, who knows my deepest kitchen desires and how to meet them... HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!!!!! God fashioned me to come from you and to HIM,   I owe my life. I THANK GOD FOR YOU EVERY SINGLE DAY. I LOVE YOU MUMMY !!!!!!!!!! A mother is not necessarily the one who gave birth to you....

THE NEED TO KNOW

Sometimes knowledge is what shortchanges us, but really... it is "we" who do the harm to ourselves. The "need to know" is easily replaced these days with "what is available." The hunger to be sure is now doused with acceptability. Have you ever mused on the fact that maybe: If only you read a little further you would have covered that topic for the exam. If only you asked her, she would have said yes and not marry Luis. If you fellowshipped more with the HOLYSPIRIT you wouldn't have singed that shady contract. If you took that professional exam you could have qualified for that managerial position. "ILL LUCK?" really? ...is that your best defense?  :( Truth is, LUCK is only a mirage and it exists only in the mind of FOOLS ; okay pardon my language...nah scratch that F O O L S !!!!!!!!!!  Knowledge can save you years of unnecessary HARD WORK. GET KNOWLEDGE. ..but don't just stop there, decide to USE IT.  ...

CARE

People need to feel loved. People need to reminded how much human they also are. Now, you might be a  "care-less" or "indifferent"  person when it comes to being concerned about how people treat you, but that does not mean you should treat those in your sphere of contact that way. Your nanny wouldn't mind if you come home and ask her how her day was. Your spouse would feel loved when you ask how his/her day at the office was.  That young man who does your laundry wouldn't mind a cup of coffee when he comes to pick up the laundry. IT IS THE LITTLE THINGS YOU DO. Care can be shown at different levels.  Remember to be genuinely interested in people. It could just make the person more efficient or go as far as giving the person a reason to live. LOVE ALWAYS WINS...

SELFLESSNESS

Consider the following sentences: Everyone wants something new.  Everyone likes receiving favors. Preacher declares "You will have a blessed week in the name of Jesus," everyone choruses "AMEN." PAUSE ... take a moment to read these three sentences again and see how your subconsciousness selfishly interprets it. Let me give you a hand.  You are thinking: I want something new I like receiving favors Whoa!!! I am gonna be blessed this week  ACTS 20:35-  " It is more blessed to give than to receive ." Now go back to the 3 sentences above and read them with the mind of a GIVER . Be the one to give people new things. Be the one to grant others favors After that service in church, start thinking of who to bless during the week Trust me, God knows how to take care of his own. You cannot be the GIVER and lack any good thing. #mindsetofagiver

RELATIONSHIP GOALS

Now calm down, I am not about to tell you how to meet a guy or woo a girl. BUT ...what i tell you today can sure secure a FANTASTIC future for you. Most people like to make friends, and even those who are explicit introverts have certain people in their lives who they call friends. The question many fail to ask is: Why is she/he my friend Why do i enjoy spending time with him/her How much influence(positive) does she/he have in my life What has changed in my life since i met him/her These are just 4 of the basic questions that we should really ask when we get into any kind of relationship with someone. OUR FRIENDS SHOULD: bring out the best in us challenge us to aim higher in life encourage us to be better versions of ourselves e.t.c ANYBODY who does the opposite of all these should be " DIS-FRIENDED " :) ...had to make that word up THERE IS A SAYING. .."Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are" YOU ARE AS GOOD OR A...

I QUIT :(

Okay, I get it :( ... you tried. You actually even surpassed your "pushing capacity." ... FANTASTIC QUESTION: WHAT CHANGED ?   NOTHING. Truth is, giving up never really made anyone or anything better. All it does is to push the " worry-date" to LATER .   People say "you win or learn" , and I agree, BUT there is an underlying factor in this statement that many fail to see. NOW YOU ARE ASKING THE RIGHT QUESTION... ;)   WHAT? very simple... CHOICE Before you start any task, be conscious of the fact that your mind already has been conditioned on what to expect as an end result, and whether to interpret it as a WIN or a LOSS . And even it did not go according to plan it is still in your hands to CHOOSE to  LEARN   from  the  experience.  Remember the only person that can limit you is the guy at the other end of your mirror.